“Just Being Present,” and What That Means – Part 1

We’ve all had it, I’m sure. You’re innocently using the computer and suddenly you get some cryptic computer-jargon message (apparently it’s called a ‘dialogue box,’ but that’s a bit silly considering that we can’t talk with the computer!) saying, “General error, the program needs to close.” What can you say? Apparently it’s some file or script error and re-starting the computer is the way around it.

And the same happens with our brains to a certain extent. We get these ‘scripts’ and ‘programmes’ running that just cause us to terminate what good thinking might be happening at the time. It’s called anxiety and worry and fear. We track off into the past or the future for a moment and then the programme of our effective thinking stalls. Time for technical help perhaps?

The humanist community might call us to become ‘aware,’ so that we can control our thinking on manual mode, just allowing stimulus from our surrounds, and any deliberate, normal cognitive thinking to take place. They would tell us, ‘Just be present,’ and focus on your breathing.

It shouldn’t be that hard should it–to just be present? I tried the technique on the way home from work one evening and I got distracted off ‘being present’ so many times there must be eternal ruts in my mind.

Paul tells Timothy that, “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind” -2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV).

We’ve all heard the term, ‘Junk in, junk out,’ relating to computers. Well, our minds are the processing unit for what we eventually do in life. We think of junky things, and yes, we then do junky things.

Our thinking is like the car that cruised slowly past me; for a time, that car was plain out of sight. I had to deliberately and purposely check it was still there. For a moment I thought it had vanished. My experience wasn’t based in truth and therefore my mind started to believe something that wasn’t real. But then the car in my blindspot did eventually re-appear.

Our thinking, similarly, has to deal with all sorts of blindspots that prevent us from seeing truth and reality–we will generally only believe what we can see. But, if our thinking is subsumed by a blindspot, we’re making decisions based on bad data. Life is suddenly going from bad to worse, as the false script reinforces the negative quickly down toward the sinkhole syndrome of concern, anxiety, fear, dread, and a myriad of other forms of ‘nothing’ thoughts, which can only be destructive.

We make thousands of incorrect assumptions every day when our thinking is not based in truth. (And to think otherwise takes a whole deal of training, which I’ll get into next article.) Erroneous thinking impacts incredibly badly not only on our decisions, but also on our relationships. At best it’s counterproductive, and at worst, it’s plain destructive.

We learned through the above quote of Paul’s that a sound (and sensible) mind is a gift from God’s Spirit.

So, if God’s gift is a sound mind, where does the junky thinking come from? You guessed it! It’s the Devil in disguise, and he’s messing with us. Why be duped? The Devil might want it that way, but why should we succumb when there’s by far a better way for us and everyone connected with us?

Now, all the ‘Devil talk’ might be putting you off… let’s change the subject. Let’s just get into some “awareness” as purported above.

The advice I read recently made so much sense to me I decided to give it a try, and strangely it works. I think it’s but one technique God gives us to enjoy his gift of a sound mind.

Use Webinars to Add Value to Existing Presentations

Many presenters, when the idea of running webinars is suggested to them, respond by saying:

“There’s no way we could do our training courses by webinar, because the people really have to be in the room.”

The truth is: They are probably right!

Some face-to-face interactions simply can’t be replaced by webinars (For example, it’s difficult for a webinar to re-create the experience of a dynamic keynote presentation). But that’s no reason to abandon webinars altogether.

Some webinars do replace existing presentations, but many don’t. They can promote, support, complement, supplement, and add value to your existing presentations instead. Here are three examples…

1. Pre-event support

If you offer any intensive workshops, consider whether it’s worth running a preliminary webinar to help your participants prepare for the workshop. This means they turn up to the workshop with all their preparation done, ready to make best use of the time you’ve got together face to face.

If the participants don’t know each other, this is also an excellent way of breaking the ice and building some rapport between them (and you!) before they meet at the workshop.

2. Post-event support

You can also use a webinar to provide support after an event – for example, doing a Q&A session some time after a training program, to answer questions from participants who are implementing your ideas. This adds value to the program, and provides more of a package for the participants (and your client, if this is an in-house program).

Schedule this webinar at an appropriate time after the event. Give them enough time to put the workshop ideas into practice, but don’t leave it so late that they get stuck and lose motivation. Typically, it would be 4-8 weeks after the event.

3. Mastermind group

For even more embedded learning, consider offering to facilitate a “mastermind group” from among the attendees at a face-to-face presentation. This works best, of course, when you’re dealing with a small group. You don’t have to be the expert; simply be the facilitator who provides the webinar technology.

Although I’ve described this as a way of supporting an event, you could run it equally well as a stand-alone mastermind group with your own business colleagues. Webinar technology means they no longer need to be in the same room, city or country!

How could YOU use this?

Consider your current presentations – whether they are keynotes, training programs, coaching, facilitation or something else. How could you use a webinar to add more value to what you deliver?

The 3 Elements of a Riveting Presentation

You’ve been making the same old presentations, year after year.

Same script.

Same slide deck with the same cute cat clip-art.

Same old brochures… same old proposals…

You know it. I know it.

What you might not know, however, is that while your presentation may not have changed, your results sure have.

Same presentation – diminishing returns.

No, putting a new cover on your brochure every year doesn’t cut it.

Nor does a new cat pic on slide three.

That is not a refresh!

The same material delivered in the same style will garner average results… and average results diminish your actual returns year over year due to rising costs and increasing competition.

Face it. You’re in a rut. A very costly rut.

Here’s how to snap out of that presentation rut without getting overwhelmed or breaking the bank.

Why your presentation Is failing you

The first reason why your same old presentation is failing you is all on you.

You’re bored. Most importantly, your audience can tell you’re bored.

When you give the same memorized presentation with the same supporting materials time after time, it becomes rote. You’re no longer thinking about what you’re saying, or paying attention to how your delivery is affecting your audience.

AGENT SMITH

You’re not engaged in your presentation – so why should your audience be engaged in it?

Think about that lullaby your mum sang to you when you were a kid. Now you sing it to your kids as you put them to bed at night. It’s a nice lullaby. But it’s also a routine. When was the last time you actually paid attention to the words you were singing?

Repeating the same memorized presentation is like singing your audience to sleep.

The second reason your presentation is failing you is because it’s not keeping up with the changes your company is going through.

Change is the only constant in business. Since you created that presentation, your business has certainly changed. Maybe you have new offerings, or a new customer service team, or a new purchasing process. If those changes aren’t reflected in your presentations, you’re missing a huge opportunity to share what’s new and exciting at your company.

And you’re missing the opportunity to get your audience excited about it, too.

The third reason your presentation is failing you is because a predictable old presentation delivered by a listless speaker is a recipe for a stagnant performance.

A good presentation is dynamic. The room, the stage and the audience all affect the delivery.

A stagnant performance encourages the audience to tune out. It also makes it less likely that your audience will remember anything you say. In fact, people recall nothing if they’re not paying attention, and the average adult attention span is only five minutes.

There are three elements to fixing a failing presentation and engaging your audience…

Element #1: Conversation – and It Only Happens When Prospects Participate

A successful presentation is a conversation.

And conversation only happens when the dialogue goes both ways.

Whether you’re giving a sales pitch to a buyer or presenting your quarterly business report to your organization, no presentation should be “shut up and listen to me talk for 30 minutes.”

Your audience should feel like they can jump in and ask a question at any point. And you should feel like you can shift gears to accommodate those questions and give a great response at any point.

Part of this comes from practicing dynamic speaking skills – which you can learn more about here. But you may be surprised to discover that part of this also falls to your choice in supporting materials.

You’re only human, and you can only remember so much. You’ll need to come to every presentation opportunity prepared with supporting materials, such as brochures, spec sheets and discretionary slides. If someone in the audience asks you a question you can’t answer off the top of your head, stopping the presentation to shuffle through a stack of paperwork or scroll through dozens of digital files will be incredibly distracting for everyone involved.

And sometimes saying “I’ll get back to you on that” just won’t cut it.

So keep everyone on track and engaged by having your supporting material well-organized an instantly accessible in a dedicated app. At Stun, we use Showcase Workshop for this.

Element #2: Excitement – the Secret to Waking Up Your Audience

The secret to an engaged audience is excitement. Yes, that means keeping the presentation dynamic and having your supporting materials easily accessible.

It also means rethinking your story for your current audience.

What’s new? Different? What’s exciting in your world? How has your product changed lives? What do your quarterly results mean for your organization’s future?

These are the stories your audience wants to hear.

Element #3: Encouraging Dialogue – Leave ‘Em Wanting More

Now you understand the need for conversation and excitement to keep your audience engaged.

The third element to a presentation that doesn’t bore the socks off of your audience is to encourage dialogue.

Don’t just prepare for questions – encourage them. Tell the audience you want them to ask questions. Don’t wait until the end for a formal Q&A. No one will be awake for that.

And ask questions of your own. Foster two-way dialogue by asking the audience questions that trigger responses you’re ready for, so you can use those responses to move seamlessly forward in the presentation.

Most importantly, tell the right stories to elicit an emotional response from your audience.

If you’re telling the right stories, your audience’s response will be “me too!”

They’ll want to jump in with their own examples of why what you’re saying is on-target.

They’ll pursue you for more information because what you’re saying is resonating so deeply.

They’ll tell you why they need your solution.

Tell the right stories and your audience will be anxious to hear more.

Don’t worry. You’re not on your own creating these stories. That’s exactly what we do here at Stun Sells. We help you uncover your story, and then construct the highest quality digital sales collateral to power that story. Hear how other companies have gotten better results from their presentations with better stories.